WHY MEN CANNOT AVOID ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?
SURVIVAL: Fear about his WIFE filing criminal cases against him, his parents, his brothers, sisters, uncle, aunty, mohallawalas, etc., etc.,
ECONOMIC DEPENDENCE: She will make sure that he looses his job, lock all his assets by filing DVA and still claim maintenance, for her, her parents, her brothers, sisters, her uncle, aunty, her mohallawalas, etc., etc.,
FEAR: Of going to jail, commiting suicide, parents dying, etc.,
PARENTING: She will kidnap his children and he has to fight & loose the custody cases .
RELIGION: Even god cannot save men.
FAMILY: Extended family will be sent to jail, his sisters/brothers will not get married. retired parents will die out of heart attacks.
LOYALTY: Accepted by default. Being other way is impossible to prove in the court.
RESCUE: If she stays & PAYS he can avoid the above.
FEAR OF HER SUICIDE: She will use only kerosene to threaten him.
DENIAL: This happens only within the 4 walls, but the courts believe the other way.
LOVE: If at all he surrenders his ATM card.
IDENTITY: She is a Abla Naari, believe me.
SHAME, EMBARRASSMENT AND HUMILIATION: She cries in front of his friends, colleagues, in courts, in public, in mediation centers, in reconcilation centers etc., etc., and LAUGHS at him when he is alone.
LOW SELF-ESTEEM: After years of being criticized by his abuser, he believes that it must be his fault of being born a male citizen in this country.
SEX ROLE: So called bhakras!!!
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